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For All Y’All Who Say Removing Confederate Statues Is a Far Left Plot to Destroy America

The problem is what the Confederate statues represent. They have a language. They whisper stories of lies and torment, greed and cruelty hidden behind the facade of justice. I heard their stories and had a visceral reaction as a child. Back then, we made an annual pilgrimage down south from up north to visit kinfolk. 

My father was a Yankee and my mother a Southerner. I have the whole Civil War running right through my veins. My momma's people in South Carolina were as kind and sweet and lovin' as ever they could be. My father's people had retired to North Carolina, so we'd visit them, too. They were more traveled, having lived outside the country and such over in Belgium. They played golf. My momma's people played horseshoes, or more likely sat on the back porch for a smoke and some of Aunt Neva's pound cake. 

Thing of it is, my momma's people were white but they had done sharecroppin' side alongside black folks. In fact, one of her ancestors long ago had helped a black man get into politics. In recent memory, Bethany Baptist Church in Bishopville, South Carolina, was going to renovate and remove the upstairs balcony of the church. My kinfolk lobbied to preserve it for history. The balcony was where the enslaved attended church back in the day.

Should that balcony be torn down? Were not the footsteps of slaves on those plank floors sacred? It is not to glorify slavery, but to honor those who suffered that one can walk up those same stairs into the stifling heat. Imagine what it must have felt like to be enslaved looking down on the free white congregation below. Imagine as the floors creak beneath your feet and hear their gospel sorrow.

Howsoever, preserving idols to the Confederacy raises different issues. They are not testimonies to the sorrow of the South. They proclaim a longing for what never should have been. To me as a child, it was as clear as the heinous signs that read “Whites Only” over the public water fountain. I recoiled when I saw Confederate statues. They made my stomach go in knots. I thought of my black friends. I thought about Lincoln. 

I thought about all the suffering. The sadness of people dying. But the hallelujah feeling that the cruelty of slavery was over was not let go into the air on account of those Confederate statues. They said, “Now you shush up or you’re gonna get a whoopin’.”  

Only a crazy world holds up those who kill to enforce racism. Those statues made my skin crawl right over my stomach all in knots. They made me not trust grownups at all. I heard justifications like “states’ rights.” Even as a child I knew there were no rights unless all my brothers and sisters had the same rights. 

Instead of legislators and generals of the grey, there should be statues to those who served the Underground Railroad, civil rights, agriculture, the arts, letters and sciences, images of people of all backgrounds and ethnicities. We need to change the conversation from condoning oppression to celebrating humanity. 

The iconography of our collective victory resides within the intrinsic, inalienable and infinitely precious value of each person. We need to elevate the true heroes and heroines of history and those who embody the hopes and noblest ideals of freedom, community and ingenuity for the sake of the history we have yet to build. 






Nice, France
21 August 2017






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